All journeys have secret destinations, of which the traveler is unaware.

I have learned to be content in whatever circumstance I am. Philippians 4:11b

11.03.2010

American Idol(atry)

A big house with a white picket fence.  Two car garage complete with two cars.  Two perfectly behaved kids and a dog.  People work themselves half-to-death trying to reach this standard....known as “living the American Dream.”  Keeping up with the Joneses.  Who created this standard anyway?  You know what I think is sad?  The so-called American dream mentions nothing about spiritual life.  So you have all these things...you’re living the life.  All the perks and benefits of those hours and hours of hard work you put in at the office.  But your soul is languishing.  You spend all your time and money and effort and thought on building your own little shrine to yourself and all “your hard work” until it’s so big that other people notice it and pat you on the back.  “Wow, look at that house!  You must be so proud.  You must have worked so hard!”  Guess what....that house is going to be gone one day.  People who make idols will become like them....a house is just a big empty box.  We put stuff in it, we live in it....but really it’s just a shell.  Put all your blood, sweat and tears into building up that house....what will it do for you?  In the end, you’ll be just like that house....empty.  The American Dream is really a nightmare....it’s an idol.  
Here in Ghana (even more so in other African nations) you can see actual “idols.” Meaning what you would typically envision when you hear the word idol.  If you go out to the village you might see an actual carved image or rock, or tree or whatever; that people offer sacrifices to and worship on a regular basis.  Now, in the U.S. you’re not going to see people bowing down in front of their cars or their houses....You do however see people investing a significant portion of their time, energy, money and thought into improving their status.  They might not physically bow down and worship their house or their job or their car or their hobby....but in their heart it’s the most important thing to them.  Sometimes they don’t even realize it.  It seems to me that Americans have a hard time recognizing their idols so we think they don’t exist.  Americans have idols....they’re just packaged differently than the idols out in the villages of Africa.  
Anything that you devote yourself to can become your idol.  Even (seemingly) good things can become idols.  I bet you know a guy that spends lots of time working in the yard of your church building; mowing the grass, trimming hedges, even doing small repairs and things around the building.  That’s great, maintenance needs to be taken care of....but if that same gentleman doesn’t ever do any outreach or personal Bible studies with anyone because he’s done “his part” working in the church...then the maintenance of the church building has become his idol.  What’s more important, the stones around the church building or the living stones that God uses to build THE church?  
People will never be able to fully submit to God and serve him until they recognize and eliminate the idols in their lives.  We have to thoroughly examine our lives.  Where do you spend most of your time and your money?  What do you spend most of your time doing or thinking about?  If our lives are not focused on serving God (even if you’re not working “in ministry”) then we need to seriously reevaluate our priorities.  Maybe I’ll post more on this later....but in the meantime, remember, where you heart is, there your treasures will be also.

Nyame Adom
BAM

10.09.2010

Fearless...


“The Lord challenges us to suffer persecutions and to confess him.  He wants those who belong to him to be brave and fearless.  He himself shows how weakness of the flesh is overcome by courage of the Spirit.  This is the testimony of the apostles and in particular of the representative, administrating Spirit.  A Christian is fearless.”  Tertullian
I really like this quote.  It’s a very hard pill to swallow sometimes, but it’s SHOULD be true.  Since I’ve been in Ghana I’ve gotten a lot more into the Word and I’ve started to understand some things that I never even realized I didn’t understand.  Why are all those  stories in the Bible in the first place?  There are so many different occasions in the Bible where people displayed extraordinary courage or bravery in the face of certain death and doom.  When I was younger I just enjoyed the stories like most children do.  What child wouldn’t enjoy hearing such fantastical stories like Jonah, David and Goliath, Daniel and the Lions’ Den and so on?  But as a child they felt like “stories” to me...like fairy tails.  I know that I was aware that these stories were supposed to be different than other stories like Snow White or Aladdin, but I didn’t really understand until I got older.  The stories in the Bible are not fairy tales or myths.  They are historical documentation of the most amazing events to ever happen on this earth.  David, Goliath, Noah, Joshua, Jonah, Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach, Abednego.....they’re all REAL people.  Just like you and I, they were once alive on this earth.  They had real families, real jobs, real problems just like we have now.  So what made them so extraordinary in the stories that have made them so well known?  It was their faith!  They were courageous because they really believed that the Bible (at least what they had of it then) was true.  They really believed that the Creator of the universe was involved in their lives.  
Now think about this.....they didn’t even have the indwelling of the Holy Spirit like Christians today do!  We have the potential to have SO much courage.  We don’t just have the occasional help of the Holy Spirit in extreme situations...He lives inside of us all the time.  The same Sprit that enabled Daniel and his friends to excel  in their training, and to withstand being burnt alive in a furnace LIVES inside of me.  The same Spirit that enabled Noah to be righteous when literally the whole earth was unrighteous and to build a boat for a flood even though he’d never seen rain, lives inside of me.  The same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead....THAT Spirit LIVES INSIDE of my body!
Now, I don’t know about you, but to me, that thought is very complex.  It’s comforting to know that I have this tremendous source of power.  It’s also a little frightening.  Why?  Because, God knows my true potential.  So He knows if I’m living up to my potential....It’s also a little frightening because it’s just SO much power. Sometimes it freaks me out to think about what God could use me for if I just totally let go of myself and submitted to HIM in every aspect of my life.   Look at Paul, God used him to do amazing things....God also allowed him to suffer extensively.  Could I withstand suffering like that?  Could I do amazing things like Paul did?  I have to believe that I could if I really lived by faith and by the direction of the Holy Spirit.  Power can be a scary thing.  But the amazing thing is that the power of the Holy Spirit doesn’t have to be scary to us.  In fact there should be no fear at all of this power.  God loves us and there is no fear in love.  The power of the Holy Spirit is to enable us to serve God fully.  He gives us the power to do extraordinary things and to have extraordinary faith!  What an amazing gift that is!  



Nyame Adom (by God's Grace)
BethAnn

9.26.2010

Greetings from Ghana!

Well, I'm finally back in Ghana!  I've been back since September 1st.  I'm so glad that I got to visit the US this summer and see most of my family and friends.  It was a great visit.  I'm glad that I got to speak at several different places and share about the work we're doing here in Ghana.  I had an adventure getting from Accra to Kumasi.  Mr. H sent me an email to tell me that they couldn't come & pick me up so I needed to get a flight from Accra to Kumasi at the airport when I landed...unfortunately I didn't ever get that email.  So when I got to the airport I was waiting patiently for someone to pick me up...no one came...To make it a little more complicated, my phone wasn't working (the battery got messed up) so all the calls that Mrs. H made to me never got to me...Finally after about an hour and a half of waiting two guys that I have never met in my life offered to let me use their cell phones to call someone.  Mrs. H told me I needed to get the flight that leaves at 4:30 so I ran to the desk and what do you know...it's 4:35 and the flight is taking off (on time?!!! no way) so I had to switch to Plan B.  The two guys helped me get my luggage to the taxi stand and I took a taxi to the bus station (after giving the two guys some money, for helping me, that's WHY they were helping anyway...but I was thankful none the less).  Got to the bus station and got everything squared away to take the bus.  Finally got home around 11:30-11:45 P.M. that night.  I was SOOOO thankful to see two of my friends waiting for me at the bus stop!  It was a little bit of an adventure traveling like that with no one else to rely on.  It helps me to remember that even when things aren't going as planned...God is still in control.

Youth Camp started the following Monday.  It was a BLAST!! A whole week of diving into Scripture with 15-19 year olds.  Playing games, competing in lots of different competitions, singing and just enjoying the company of friends.  The team that I was one of the leaders of actually ended up coming from behind and winning!  Everyone was surprised.  I'll try to post some pictures soon.
The Monday after Youth Camp we had cleaning day at the school and Tuesday classes started!  I have 9 students so far.  They're all 7-12 years old.  They're great kids and I'm excited to see them grow as the year goes on.

I'm sure there's more I could add here....I've already had Malaria once since I've gotten back....I've eaten lots of Ghanaian foods that I'd never tried before....There have been two new babies born (Chloe Wonder and Jedidiah Akola).  Weightlifting is still going on...Life is just going and going right now!

One thing I do want to mention is that the mission is really having a hard time financially right now.  A lot of our support has decreased or even stopped in some cases because of the bad economic situation in the US right now.  I implore you to please remember that if YOU'RE doing bad financially....imagine how bad it is for missionaries that rely on the gracious donations of faithful Christians to keep going.  A lot of people here have been affected by this.  If support for the mission drops then the mission has to make really tough decisions about how to best use the money that is coming in.  People have had to find new jobs because the mission can't afford to support them anymore...jobs are extremely hard to find here.  Please, please consider making a sacrifice to help the work continue here.  If 10 people would sacrifice $10 a week then that would be $400 month....in a year that would be nearly $5000!  $10 a week is basically like giving up two fast-food meals a week.  I hope that people are willing to make a small sacrifice like that so that people here can continue to have the chance for Christian education for their children!  I KNOW that any sacrifice that is made to grow the Kingdom will not be a sacrifice made in vain...it will be remembered and repaid in the end!
I hope you're all doing awesome in the Lord!
Nyame Adom (by God's Grace)
BA

8.21.2010

home is where the___________ is...

So, the old saying goes, "home is where the heart is."  But I think that home can be a lot of things to a lot of people.  There are some things that just make me FEEL at home.  So here are some of the things that really make a place feel like home (to me);
>Great friends, no matter where I am, if I have some friends with me, I'm home.
>Family, sometimes family makes me feel at home, but sometimes they make me feel crazy ;-)
>Knowing my way around, a town, a friend's place, a kitchen, if I don't feel lost, I'm at home.
>Hot weather, I don't always like it, but I'm from NC, it's hot there a lot so I'm used to it.
>Sentimental stuff, you know your favorite trinket from childhood, for me it's a stuffed UNC ram that I got when I was about a week old.
>Pictures, now, for some people, pictures make them long for home, but for me, they remind me of the people that I love so I feel more at home when I have pictures of my friends and family.
>Music, I'm very musical so just hearing a few notes of a song can remind me of all wonderful people that I associate with that particular song.
>Food, I love to try food from all different places, but sometimes just digging into one of my favorite foods will make me flash back to the place that food reminds me of.
>A beautiful sunset/rise/starry night sky, anywhere in the world you can see them no matter the locale.
....I'm sure there are more things that would remind me of home if I really put a lot of time into thinking of it....but I'm not going to do that right now.  I've realized in the last few years that, for me, home is not so much a physical place as it is a state of mind.  I really can feel at home anywhere.
Wherever I am, there I am.
Cape Diem
BA

Mac Attack...

So, I got a Mac.  Finally.  I've wanted  a Macbook Pro for about 8 years. I wanted one when I was in college because that's what we used for all our editing in class.  After some very generous donations, which I've already talked about here, I finally have my Mac.  I still kind of can't believe it's really mine.  I think it's really cool how I've wanted one for so long, but never could get one and now that I want it to use for the mission I have been able to get it.  It's actually a little bit scary.  I mean, God provided this laptop for me, through the donations of people I know.  That means God is expecting me to use it for HIS purposes.  And THAT means I better make some videos for the mission. 
I guess I am a little worried that I will make some videos and people will see them and think (or even say to me)..."you mean this is all you can do with that fancy expensive computer?"....I have to keep telling myself that it's the devil planting that thought in my head.  I know that I can make good quality pieces.  I just need to have confidence in my ability.  God must have some confidence in my ability or I suppose he wouldn't have provided the computer would he?  I know people are expecting good things now...so maybe I'm feeling a little pressure to produce good stuff.  Then again, maybe the pressure is coming from within. 
I'm working on transfering files and things from my PC to my Mac....and then I want to re-vamp my newsletter and get a good looking template for it set.  Presentation on Sunday at Stoneybrook...excited about that!  SB is one of those congregations I think anyone can feel at home in.  There are some people there (quite a few actually) that have known me nearly my whole life so I guess I feel closer to SB than to some congregations.  I'm excited to tell them about Ghana in part because I know they're excited to hear about Ghana. 
I feel like I have lots to get done before I leave for Ghana again.  There are some things I need to buy for myself and for others.  There are some things I need to get organized, luggage, mailing lists, addresses of friends etc.  I have a photo journal on line that I want to get updated and completely squared away so people can look at it before I go.  There's at least one trip to the beach planned in there.  I would like to see my grandma and brothers again before I go.  It feels like the time is flying now....at the beginning of this visit it dragged on day by day...now it seems like the days are just here and gone! 
I am really ready to get back to Ghana.  I sort of feel bad sometimes because of the people I know, most of them when they travel, they really miss their families and "home."  But I can't really say I've missed the US that much.  There are some people that I've missed....but not in the way that other people I've observed do.  I've never really felt homesick or missed family and friends so much that I wanted to leave Ghana.  Maybe it's because I lived alone for a couple of years before I went so I was already used to being away from people somewhat.  Maybe God just designed me this way because in His infinite wisdom He knew I'd be in Africa someday and it would be better for me to be one of those kinds of people that can be at home just about anywhere.  In all honesty, I feel like Ghana is home.  And I feel like NC is home.  I know that neither of them is REALLY home...
Planning a post in the near future about "what makes me feel at home"

for the time being...
BAM

8.14.2010

Overwhelmed...

That's what I was last Sunday morning.  There was a specific event that caused this feeling...but I'll get to that after some backstory. 
When I first got back to the US I sent out a quick update just to let all my friends/supporters know that I was Stateside.  In that email I mentioned that I was hoping to try to purchase a new laptop this summer.  Not just any laptop, a Macbook Pro.  I explained that I want a Mac so that I can start doing some good quality videos for the Mission (I do have a degree in A/V production after all) but that I know Macs are very expensive and if I'm not able to get one, it's just fine. 
I was at one of the congregations that I call "home" here in the US last Sunday.  For Sunday School I got to hear a great message by Mr. Hammer (from Togo) about how he grew up and how his family got to Togo.  In between Sunday School and the Preaching one of the elders from the congregation that I've known since I was a little kid and who was the one that organized a trip to Ghana/Togo 3 years ago that was my first trip, pulled me aside because he wanted to talk to me about something.  We went into an old, un-used office and he said "did you get your new computer yet?"  I told him I hadn't and he pulled a stack of credit cards out of his pocket and started explaining to me that he'd gotten them through work (freqent traveler points kind of thing) and that each one has $100 on it....there were 11 of them!  Then, as if that wasn't enough, he handed me a check to take to the other congregation I call "home" to my forwarding agent.  I didn't even look at it because I was too busy telling him how much I appreciate him and how he's the only one that responds to my newsletters and what an awesome, encouraging man of God he is. 
O-V-E-R-W-H-E-L-M-E-D
When I sat down next to my mom I was telling her about it, and that I didn't look at the check & she said "give it to me...I'll look at it!"  After she looked at it she said, "I think you need to look at this check.."  It was a personal check from him for One Thousand Dollars!  once again O-V-E-R-W-H-E-L-M-E-D
All during the singing and praying I was just feeling this sense of awe.  I even had a hard time singing at one point because I was trying not to cry.  God is so awesome....
After the service, a lady that is very supportive of my work in Ghana came up to me and handed me $25....she said "It's not much, but use it to buy yourself something....a splurge."  This lady is pretty old...I'm not sure of her age but her husband is 92.  She has told me more than once that she always wanted to go to Africa to work as a missionary so she really admires me.  They don't have a lot of money, so that twenty-five bucks is probably actually a sacrifice for her.  Then a lady, who happens to be the generous elder's daughter and was also on that first trip to Africa with me, handed me a check for $100 and said "use it for your Mac." 
O-V-E-R-W-H-E-L-M-E-D
I don't want to say that I can't belive it....because nothing that God does should surprise me...but I was shocked.  Unfortunately the generosity of people is surprising sometimes.  Living in Ghana and seeing the great poverty there, the real need for things that are NOT luxuries...food, clothing clean water, safe housing...then coming here....sometimes it kind of makes me sad that people are so selfish.  But it's people like these 3 (and many many more that I haven't talked about here) that give me hope about America.  True Christians are not selfish, they're generous....so I guess it shouldn't surprise me when they are generous to me. 
I guess I'm getting a Mac :-)   I'm already excited thinking about different types of videos I can shoot for the mission and yes, for fun too. 
On a different note;
I'm planning on posting here more regularly.  I've been thinking about schedules a lot lately and I think if I actually schedule a blog post on my calendar every 2 weeks then I will do it.  I've been terrible about keeping my supporters updated it seems.  I'm actually pretty ashamed of it.  I feel like I have a responsiblity to let people know what they're supporting and I don't think I've done such a great job this last year.  So I'm working on a schedule in my head (to be put on a calendar later).  Updates, blog posts, even notes and emails are going to all have a place on it.  I know that I have a hard time remembering to keep in touch with people...it's something I'm working on changing.  My schedule for the next 3 weeks is going to be busy.  Every Sunday and Wednesday starting this Sunday I have a presentation to do about Ghana.  I'm nervous and excited about that.  I hope I can get the things across in the presentations that God wants me to get across.  The important things.  I hope my supporters will see that their sacrifice is not in vain and I hope that maybe I'll gain some new support.  Well, I gues this post is quite long enough....so I'll end it here.  I hope you're doing great by God's Grace
AkoBAM

8.10.2010

Consistency...

Consistent: adjective


1.agreeing or accordant; compatible; not self-contradictory: His views and actions are consistent.

2.constantly adhering to the same principles, course, form, etc.: a consistent opponent.

3.holding firmly together; cohering.

4.Archaic . fixed; firm.

I have been thinking about consistency a lot lately. In almost every facet of life being consistent is the key, as far as I can tell. I know that personally, every time I have tried to change my eating and exercising habits, the only time I saw any real results were the times when I was really consistent. I don’t have any kids, but I’ve interacted with a lot of different kids from a lot of different backgrounds and I can see a clear difference between the kids that have had consistent discipline and those that have not. In just about anything I can think of, prayer, bible reading, memory work, learning to play an instrument ,learning a new language, learning just about anything for that matter…consistency is key. We see in the bible that Jesus and his disciples were noticeably consistent. It was Jesus’ “habit” to go out alone and pray in the early morning or late evening hours. It was the habit of the apostles to go into the temples and synagogues to teach. So why am I thinking about this? Well, I think that consistency is something that humans really struggle with. We get lazy, we get tired of doing the same thing over & over again. But this is something that have to remember is that living a consistent life, a life that is in the footsteps of Christ, is something that we CANNOT get tired of. It’s just something we have to choose to do. So whatever you’re doing…work at it as if working for the Lord! Be consistent in everything for God’s glory. He’s consistent, we should be too.